Preview of the first page of Helping Children Talk About Feelings

Free educator guide

Helping Children Talk About Feelings

  • Educator guide for ages 5–8
  • About 45 minutes, or several shorter sessions
  • 4-page PDF · US Letter

Young children often feel big emotions before they have the words for them. This free guide gives teachers a short, ready-to-use sequence for building a shared feelings vocabulary in the classroom: a modeled opening discussion, a face-reading activity, small-group conversation prompts, and a simple way to bring families into the conversation.

Learning objectives

By the end of the activities, children will be able to:

  • Name at least four common feelings: happy, sad, angry, and scared
  • Connect facial expressions and body cues to feeling words
  • Describe a time they felt a particular way, using a complete sentence
  • Identify at least one adult they can talk to when feelings are hard

Inside the guide

  1. Purpose and learning objectives
  2. Opening classroom discussion
  3. Emotion identification activity
  4. Small-group discussion prompts
  5. Family extension activity
  6. Adapting participation for different learners

How to use it

  1. Download and print the guide (four pages, US Letter).
  2. Optional: print copies of the free “My Feelings Have Names” activity for each child.
  3. Lead the opening discussion, modeling a feeling of your own first.
  4. Run the emotion identification activity and the “Show Me” game.
  5. Break into small groups with the discussion prompts, then share strategies as a class.
  6. Send home the family note from page three.

This guide supports everyday classroom conversations about feelings. It is not a clinical resource and makes no curriculum-alignment claims.

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